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#3495 - Tuesday, April 7, 2009 - Editor: Jerry Katz
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James Traverse of http://beingyoga.com has selected a few quotations that bear on the themes of truth vs appearances and seeing things as they are. His quotations and the article that follows, by Tisha Morris, point to how we know what we know. They reveal what works, leaving us with nothing but the recognition of the Self, or the Source, the Light.
Quotations selected by James Traverse:
"All human problems arise from this
extraordinarily complex, living center which is the 'me', and a
man who would uncover its subtle ways has to be negatively aware,
choicelessly observant." ~ J. Krishnamurti Collected Works,
Vol. XIII - 202
"Conflict and problems all derive from the mind as it tries
to justify its existence" ~ Jean Klein
Here is the introduction of Billy Doyle's book 'The
Mirage of Separation' (Billy Doyle studied with Jean
Klein).
Introduction
These writings come from a non-dualistic perspective. Our
focus is on the nature of our real identity. Until we come to
know it, we are lost in a world of ignorance.
Our basic mistake, and from which all other mistakes
arise, is to identify ourselves with an object: the body-mind.
In doing so we lose sight of our true nature, consciousness,
pure awareness, taking ourselves to be an expression of
life, rather than life itself. Thereby we become engrossed in
the world of a personalised I; it is this pseudo-I that usurps
our real identity.
This I-image, the ego, is no more than a collection of
shifting ideas and experiences, with no independent reality.
In taking ourselves to be a separate entity we have come
adrift from our homeground, and inevitably fear and desire
arise. In compensation we pursue happiness and security and
try to escape pain and sorrow.
It is only when we understand the illusionary nature of
this projection that we become open to our real nature, that
which is beyond the mind.
The Self is not something new to be attained, for it ever
is; it has only to be recognized.
However we can never know the Self as we would an
object, for it is the ultimate knower, neither perceivable, nor
conceivable; we can only be it. Its nature is self-luminous.
Billy Doyle
January 2008
The Mirage of Separation: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0955829003?ie=UTF8&tag=nondualitysal-20&linkCode=xm2&creativeASIN=0955829003
Jody Radzik Twitters us about the following article. Follow Jody at http://twitter.com/guruphiliac
Losing Your Identity to Find Your Soul
http://www.tishamorris.com/2009/03/losing-your-identity-to-find-your-soul/
Posted by Tisha Morris
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We see it all the time. Sports figures retire, un-retire, re-retire, un-re-retire, and finally retire. If it wasn’t Michael Jordan, it was Magic Johnson, Jimmy Connors, and now Lance Armstrong (bless his heart, as we say in the South). And while they go through this in front of the world, we all go through a similar struggle without the media attention. This struggle that I am referring to is the attachment to our “identity.” And as our world undergoes major changes and shifts, most of us will also experience an identity crisis at some point, if not already.
The most common identity attachment is to our jobs whether it be in sports, law, banking, arts, medicine, or any other identifiable category. Typically, the more time and/or energy one puts into it, the greater the attachment to that identity. Take sports figures, for example. They have dedicated their entire life to that sport with an incredible intensity. The same could be true for someone who acquired lots of education in a particular field. Also the amount of income received can bolster one’s attachment to the identity. And, of course, society’s perception of the value of that job weighs heavily.
In addition to attaching to an identity in the workplace, we also identify with certain role identities. For example, being a mom, being rich, having a great portfolio, driving a jag, being the homecoming queen, being spiritual, being vegan, being a Steelers fan, being the frat guy, and the list goes on. We will find any possible identity to hang on. Why? We don’t know who we would we be without it. Our mind won’t let us just ‘be’.
The mind, or ego, attaches to an identity in order to categorize, separate, and, ultimately, to survive. The problem is that these illusory labels are only temporary. The athletic body fades away, the kids grow up, you get laid off, your portfolio loses its value, or you finally retire. How many times have you seen this? A man works his entire life with hardly ever taking a sick day, he retires, and then suddenly his health deteriorates and/or he just dies. Jack Nicholson’s character in About Schmidt went through a similar experience. Upon retiring from the insurance business, he had no idea who he was, let alone his wife or daughter.
The word “identification” is derived from the Latin word idem, which means “same” and facere, which means “to make.” Therefore, when we identify with something, we are attempting to make it the same as our Self. But the only thing that we can really “be” is our Self. The job, object, person, or role is just a temporary, illusive substitute which becomes a bottomless pit of seeking happiness.
In the Introduction of Eckhart Tolle’s The Power of Now, he gives a personal testimony of going from suicidal to enlightenment literally overnight. He attributes this dramatic shift to the loss of identification with anything. He describes this experience of nonattachment as follows: “A time came when, for a while, I was left with nothing on the physical plane. I had no relationships, no job, no home, no socially defined identity. I spent almost two years sitting on park benches in a state of the most intense joy.”
While it is unlikely that most of us will experience such a dramatic loss of identification, many are currently grappling with a loss of identity either voluntarily or involuntarily. Many people are voluntarily changing careers after working their way up the ladder for years only to start back at the bottom in a new career. Although it is by choice, it can still be challenging to shed the former identity. In fact, I would guess that loss of identity unconsciously prevents many people from moving out of a career that is not satisfying.
I remember my own experience with this a few years ago. I was transitioning from practicing law to a more fulfilling career of yoga and energy healing. One day, my legal contracting clients suddenly dried up before I got my new career underway. I felt like I had fallen into a crack between two worlds. I suddenly had no identity. And no income. After making decent money ever since entering the workforce, I had not realized how much “making good money” was part of my identity until it wasn’t there. Even with the ability to meet my expenses through savings, my identity as a money-making attorney was gone and my ego was blown. After a week of mourning, I began to dig deep within myself trying to find something with which to identify. The only thing left was my Soul. I realized that my permanent, inner Light is in fact my most valuable asset.
With the current state of the economy, many people are experiencing this same loss of identity either from the loss of their job, stock portfolio, or home. Unable to get another job, it can leave one wondering who they are. Like an artist facing a blank canvas, it can be daunting. But this opportunity can be freeing at the same time. Shedding these egoic identifications can be liberating. And when one accesses the core essence of the Soul, a portal opens that leads to finding one’s Soul Purpose. Or to finding an inner joy never experienced before. The involuntarily loss of identifications are forcing people to dig deep and find their true Self. And what they are finding is a well of creativity.
If you are someone who has recently lost or losing an identity, either voluntarily or involuntarily, don’t just search for the next one. Instead, use this as an opportunity to find your true Light. And let it guide you to your Soul’s inner joy.